Monday, May 4, 2020

Planning and supporting of a crime is also a crime !

Planning and supporting of a crime is also a crime !! 

Though I tried my best to not think much on this ! Still seeing all the posts everywhere and all those comments made it to break my silence now . I am sure almost everyone today knows about that THE BOYS LOCKER ROOM and here i am, just expressing up some of my views regarding this.
Everytime I feel like things are getting better and we are slightly safe in the open society, all these issues get me back stucked . Literally just reading of all this shook me out, like really there are people around us who are planning and supporting others to rape us. Now just think of those girls who were entraped in all this and moreover after raising their voice against all this, what they are getting in return, just threats. Like seriously, Just tell us , what kind of fun it is , what do you get after passing such comments and sharing of all those pictures. And its not about just that group, but its about the thinking of the society. That group just come up in highlights so these issues are raised but you know we have many silent spectators too . What about them ? Yes, they did wrong . Saying all this shit about girls or anyone , it's not at all tolerated but its just we got to know about that . But do we know about the rest too ? May be, there are many others too.
And the worst part is all these incidents not only leave a dark spot in those girls but it is also effecting the mindset of others.So is it like we are not even safe on social media ? Is it like we can't even just post our pictures ? And just because of these creepers, we have to define our boundaries. Excuse me, who the hell are you ? Who the hell has given you the permission to put boundations on us? Are you my mother or father? No,you are not ! So why can't you just keep your eyes in limits. Why can't you respect others ? By whom you get the right to comment on our body shapes ? Have your parents give this type of upbringing to you ?
I know it's getting so common and even if we make a hell efforts to stop all this, it's not gonna change and it's just because of the thinking of youth . Yes, it is ! I feel so bad for their mothers who raised up such monsters and their sisters who trust them. Can you explain how you see yours sister's clothing ? Do you have this similar kind of thinking for them too ? What if someone comments out the same on your mother or sister, don't you get outraged on them ? Or you just put the level of your HAWAS (sexual desire) up at that time too and support them too ? Why always the girls have to compromise in each case ? Why can't parents give their boys such upbringing that they respect women ?
I know these questions are raised always whenever such kind of incident took place . But till when we are supposed to face this ? Aren't we humans too ? Don't we have the right to walk on a road alone, without any fear? Don't we have the right to wear as per our wish ?

I am extremely disheartened and enraged right now, but still i believe there are some good humans left too ! And that on those we trust today will not have such intentions. That there'll be men who would be with us and react towards such things .At last i just want to request you all, RESPECT WOMEN, don't just pretend that you do . I always believe that there will be a good man who will overpower all these monsters and make us feel safe , but it's still a wish.
In a hope of some good day, when negative vibes will decrease off and we will actually be safe.
- Mansi soni

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