Hide their tears,
Fake their smiles,
Because they are being taught
" Men don't cry !"
Seriously ?
What are they then supposed to do,
When are in a bad mood and despair ?
Just because they are
supposed to keep their eyes dry,
it doesn't mean that
they have to make all their thoughts fry.
Sitting idle at home
they are marked as
dumb and unemployed,
Do the respect depends
on their salary scale ?
Why the hell this society
act being so annoyed ?
To fit into the society's
terms and conditions,
They just need to put
their screams to silences.
All those high expectations
from the family and society,
Literally kills them from inside.
But hey you ! Keep quiet !
You are not supposed to
tell your anxiety outside !
On one side, they should be
strong enough to face any situation,
But the other side, they should be soft
to their loved ones and the other creations.
They are the only shoulder,
On which everyone lean on..
They must be a shield,
But have to strive all alone.
Just because they are
conditioned not to express,
It doesn't mean they don't feel
And have to make all
their feelings suppress .
Irrespective of their choice,
They have to choose the bold colours.
But why the rest colours are not for them ?
Why have to show their boldness also in them?
And just because
they don't complain about it,
it doesn't mean they don't have a heart.
They feel every damn thing
and get emotional too.
They just hide all these by their art .
All what they want is to
Be a lover and a admirer.
But all they get called up
Is a sexual offender.
Give up their dreams
just to fill someone else's canvas.
Because following dreams with
empty pockets is called up madness .
Yeah we don't know this
because they don't show this to us .
They might look okay by their faces,
Supporting everyone,
even if they are in trouble
but it doesn't mean that
they don't need any favour.
In a race to fight the life,
They are always asked
To torn their heart apart every night.
Shout, cry, scream, express,
All these words should have
no significance for them,
Just because they are men !
They also feels every moment
but telling others is not their thing,
Since they have to make their
throat tough, having their words back string.
"He is a boy" everyone says in a happy voice .
But being a man, is that pleasing to rejoice ?
Thursday, May 21, 2020
Monday, May 4, 2020
Planning and supporting of a crime is also a crime !
Planning and supporting of a crime is also a crime !!
Though I tried my best to not think much on this ! Still seeing all the posts everywhere and all those comments made it to break my silence now . I am sure almost everyone today knows about that THE BOYS LOCKER ROOM and here i am, just expressing up some of my views regarding this.
Everytime I feel like things are getting better and we are slightly safe in the open society, all these issues get me back stucked . Literally just reading of all this shook me out, like really there are people around us who are planning and supporting others to rape us. Now just think of those girls who were entraped in all this and moreover after raising their voice against all this, what they are getting in return, just threats. Like seriously, Just tell us , what kind of fun it is , what do you get after passing such comments and sharing of all those pictures. And its not about just that group, but its about the thinking of the society. That group just come up in highlights so these issues are raised but you know we have many silent spectators too . What about them ? Yes, they did wrong . Saying all this shit about girls or anyone , it's not at all tolerated but its just we got to know about that . But do we know about the rest too ? May be, there are many others too.
And the worst part is all these incidents not only leave a dark spot in those girls but it is also effecting the mindset of others.So is it like we are not even safe on social media ? Is it like we can't even just post our pictures ? And just because of these creepers, we have to define our boundaries. Excuse me, who the hell are you ? Who the hell has given you the permission to put boundations on us? Are you my mother or father? No,you are not ! So why can't you just keep your eyes in limits. Why can't you respect others ? By whom you get the right to comment on our body shapes ? Have your parents give this type of upbringing to you ?
I know it's getting so common and even if we make a hell efforts to stop all this, it's not gonna change and it's just because of the thinking of youth . Yes, it is ! I feel so bad for their mothers who raised up such monsters and their sisters who trust them. Can you explain how you see yours sister's clothing ? Do you have this similar kind of thinking for them too ? What if someone comments out the same on your mother or sister, don't you get outraged on them ? Or you just put the level of your HAWAS (sexual desire) up at that time too and support them too ? Why always the girls have to compromise in each case ? Why can't parents give their boys such upbringing that they respect women ?
I know these questions are raised always whenever such kind of incident took place . But till when we are supposed to face this ? Aren't we humans too ? Don't we have the right to walk on a road alone, without any fear? Don't we have the right to wear as per our wish ?
I am extremely disheartened and enraged right now, but still i believe there are some good humans left too ! And that on those we trust today will not have such intentions. That there'll be men who would be with us and react towards such things .At last i just want to request you all, RESPECT WOMEN, don't just pretend that you do . I always believe that there will be a good man who will overpower all these monsters and make us feel safe , but it's still a wish.
In a hope of some good day, when negative vibes will decrease off and we will actually be safe.
- Mansi soni
Though I tried my best to not think much on this ! Still seeing all the posts everywhere and all those comments made it to break my silence now . I am sure almost everyone today knows about that THE BOYS LOCKER ROOM and here i am, just expressing up some of my views regarding this.
Everytime I feel like things are getting better and we are slightly safe in the open society, all these issues get me back stucked . Literally just reading of all this shook me out, like really there are people around us who are planning and supporting others to rape us. Now just think of those girls who were entraped in all this and moreover after raising their voice against all this, what they are getting in return, just threats. Like seriously, Just tell us , what kind of fun it is , what do you get after passing such comments and sharing of all those pictures. And its not about just that group, but its about the thinking of the society. That group just come up in highlights so these issues are raised but you know we have many silent spectators too . What about them ? Yes, they did wrong . Saying all this shit about girls or anyone , it's not at all tolerated but its just we got to know about that . But do we know about the rest too ? May be, there are many others too.
And the worst part is all these incidents not only leave a dark spot in those girls but it is also effecting the mindset of others.So is it like we are not even safe on social media ? Is it like we can't even just post our pictures ? And just because of these creepers, we have to define our boundaries. Excuse me, who the hell are you ? Who the hell has given you the permission to put boundations on us? Are you my mother or father? No,you are not ! So why can't you just keep your eyes in limits. Why can't you respect others ? By whom you get the right to comment on our body shapes ? Have your parents give this type of upbringing to you ?
I know it's getting so common and even if we make a hell efforts to stop all this, it's not gonna change and it's just because of the thinking of youth . Yes, it is ! I feel so bad for their mothers who raised up such monsters and their sisters who trust them. Can you explain how you see yours sister's clothing ? Do you have this similar kind of thinking for them too ? What if someone comments out the same on your mother or sister, don't you get outraged on them ? Or you just put the level of your HAWAS (sexual desire) up at that time too and support them too ? Why always the girls have to compromise in each case ? Why can't parents give their boys such upbringing that they respect women ?
I know these questions are raised always whenever such kind of incident took place . But till when we are supposed to face this ? Aren't we humans too ? Don't we have the right to walk on a road alone, without any fear? Don't we have the right to wear as per our wish ?
I am extremely disheartened and enraged right now, but still i believe there are some good humans left too ! And that on those we trust today will not have such intentions. That there'll be men who would be with us and react towards such things .At last i just want to request you all, RESPECT WOMEN, don't just pretend that you do . I always believe that there will be a good man who will overpower all these monsters and make us feel safe , but it's still a wish.
In a hope of some good day, when negative vibes will decrease off and we will actually be safe.
- Mansi soni
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